Reason's for Abortion:

Selfishness

Fear

Anger/Hatred

Poor Self-esteem

Force

Ignorance

Most of the reasons a woman chooses to get an abortion or gets an abortion is caused by issues that were the cause of the woman getting pregnant with a baby, an abortion does not fix those issues. If you are greiving the lose of your freedom, or angry at the man who got you pregnant, or angry at your baby because of what is happening to your life and body,  or you are scared of what will happen in the end because maybe you feel like there isn't enough support for you to have your baby that may lead you to have an abortion. If you do not like yourself or respect yourself or are unaware, that can lead you to become pregnant by men you can not trust and then be convinced that killing your baby will be good for you, even if it really won't nor be what you really wanted. Please don't kill your baby, he or she has not done anything to you. A baby is just doing what it needs to do to survive, that's what makes you sick, causes discomfort and pain, but your baby didn't do that to you, most of you did that to yourself by not standing up for yourself or respecting yourself when it came to saying no to sex. Respect yourself, your body, your future children, don't have sex with someone you don't want a child with, unless you have your tubes tied. Be smart, be wise, be a real woman we were designed to bare children that's why you have a uterus and a vagina, not just so men can visit you inside for a night. Get help if you don't know how to say no or you don't love yourself, don't get pregnant and then kill your baby.

Are Babies with Disabilities of No Worth?

I don't know about you, but I have known many people with disabilities. Some very servere, while others quite mild. It can be very taxing as a parent of a child with a disability when they have something severe, but that doesn't mean that child can't bring a lot to the world or bring something to the world. Where I am from there was a place that would help people with disabilities (even severe disabilities) how to do things as a job, and they taught them things like sign language. I was so amazed one day when my uncle who has down syndrome came into my work one day. He can not really talk, but before I said any thing but hi to him, he had already signed to the girl with him that I was his neice, etc. I was amazed. I also have a cousin with down syndrome and autism (he is adopted) but with the aid of a computer he let his parents know he wanted to donate money to help others and that he also would like to go to college to learn more. People with disabilities may need a lot of help, but that doesn't mean they are of no worth. People with disabilities are just like any other kind of people that are different from others. It isn't until you really spend time getting to know them that you feel more comfortable around them, understand them, and even love them. In Jr. High, some friends of mine and I volunteered to help the handicap kids our age with a cooking class. Before this, some of the handicap kids scared me and I was really uncomfortable around them, but as we worked with them helping them to cook food it was very apparent they had personalities of their own and it was really fun to work with them. For anyone that hasn't been around people with disabilities or other races, etc. it just takes effort and time getting to know them. If you are pregnant with a child who is believed to have a disability please give that child a chance. They are human too, with feelings, and abilities. Let them be raised by someone else if you don't feel you can, but please do not kill them!

God bless you in your life changing decision.  

What Good are Children?

In my professional and personal life I have worked with many children. It's hard work, working with children, but children also bring a lot of joy into the world. Most children I have worked with were so sweet and bright even though they came from really rough circumstances and backgrounds. Though children are needy and dependent, they bring a lot to this world. Through children adults and older children can have brought back to remembrance how simple life can be. I love what I learn from children, even if it is challenging working with them.

I have a baby of my own now, and if I didn't believe in the importance of each child's life, all the unpleasantness of pregnancy might have gotten to me. If I was focused on the stresses of my relationship with my husband, and the uncomfortable things of pregnancy I would have decided it wasn't worth it to be married or have a baby. However, even though it wasn't fun at the time, and it is still challenging being a mother now, I would never wish I had gotten rid of my baby before she was born. She has been so sweet. She smiles and laughs, and is happy. She reminds me to laugh and smile, and be happy. She helps me think more simply about life, and let go of less important things. Having a baby can really make a woman have to find what is most important in life. We were meant to have children, that's why we have a uterus. For women that want to be equal to a man and don't want to bear children have the ability to choose not to, but unless they get ride of their uterus their body is made for bearing a child. Women who abort children are denying themselves of who they really are!

God bless those babies in the wombs of those unsure of who they are or what they are meant to be!     

ABORTION is:

Abandonment

Barbaric

Oppressive

Rapacious

Torturous

Insane Insensitivity

Offensive

Neglectful

BE SMART

Are you really in a state of mind to be making such life or death decisions? Go to an adoption agency before an abortion clinic.

BE STRONG

Having a child and/or being a good mother is hard work. Those who are strong endure the challenges of pregnancy and motherhood. Bearing a child and being a mother shows strength.

BE A HERO

Save someone instead of kill them. Value the baby that's been created in you, no matter the circumstance.